The humans eyes look outside itself upon another and focuses on what they look like, act like, talk like, dress like and notices all the "things" in this world that they have and it judges oneself according to some imaginary hierarchy in ones mind, as if some one is better or worse than another in some way.
This judgment is a comparison of form, completely void of content, soul or being. It is a very superficial way of looking at some one and it is always based on lies and leads to pain and suffering in some way.
The way out of this is to focus on the inner beauty; the light that joins us as equal children of God. To look past the form and to look past the world is the necessary opening to VISION of the Soul. If we judge another, we judge ourself. If we judge ourself, then we are living a life attacking the very self that you could be in partnership with, care about, communicate with and love. To know the Self IS to have self respect, and the only way to do so is by giving respect to another. The fastest way to do so, is to SEE their inner light and not their body. LOOK into their eyes and into their soul when you speak to some, and create space in your mind and heart to just listen. When we listen, its amazing and inspiring what can be heard.
This short video shows us how much we judge ourselves and fear what others think. It also shows us what people are actually thinking! Its quite beautiful what happens....