It is the Holy Spirits function to heal our minds and reinterpret everything we think and see. It is our function to give our mind to Him FOR healing and forgiveness that we can BE happy. If we are not yet happy or healed of a problem in our relationships, we have yet to ask for or want the solution. The law will eternally remain. "Ask and you shall receive". This is very literal. When we truly ask, we truly receive. If we have not received, it is because we are asking for something else. So what are you asking for? if you are not asking for what you TRULY want?
Holy Spirit holds out the perfect healing answer and waits in perfect patience for us to receive it. We must meet his perfect patience, with our impatience to suffer any longer, and receive forgiveness now.
"The Holy Spirit wills only to make His resolutions complete and perfect, and so He seeks and FINDS the source of problems where it IS, and there undoes it. And with each step in His undoing is the SEPARATION more and more undone, and union brought closer. He is not at all confused by any “reasons” for separation. ALL He perceives in separation is that it must be UNDONE. Let Him uncover the hidden spark of beauty in your relationships, and show it to you. Its loveliness will so attract you that you will be unwilling ever to lose the sight of it again. And you will let it transform the relationship so you can see it more and more. For you will WANT it more and more, and become increasingly unwilling to let it be hidden from you. And you will learn to seek for, and ESTABLISH, conditions in which this beauty can be seen." ~ A Course In Miracles 17.3