This decision is easiest to resolve when we ask for a way to see our Self and those that hurt us in a new light, so that we can overcome our pains by giving a gift of hope from what we learned. Its easy to forget, that underneath the games and stories is someone that we can have compassion for and whom we can learn to understand where they are coming from. They were hurt too, and so the way is to help ask for healing for both people and for all people who are in need. What it takes is a deeper look inwards, to what is really going on and to be honest with ones self as to what is true for you.
I wanted to show that this new way of transforming ones life experiences, can be found in todays world! This video is from Britians Got Talent and these two boys Charlie Lenehan and Leondre Devries have called themselves Bars and Melody (B.A.M). They are inspirations for the new generation, here to demonstrate that just because you are bullied, does not mean that you have to take it and be the victim... but rather you can transform it, and turn it into a gift to give the world. Let these young boys be a demonstration as to how we can see the pains of the world differently, and overcome our own difficulties by learning to use our life events for good. Enjoy their song "Be Hopeful". Bless us all!